Tullarbo - for the 32nd time

To all friends world wide, Cheers, and welcome to the summer 2009 at Tullarbo. No internet free zone this year. Modern secured wi-fi communication established. Blog posting as usual.

Thank you for the visit

Henrik and Helene has returned to Wales.
A week with the grandchildren has come to an end. We are exhausted, but would never have been without the two kids running around in the apartment. Laughing and playing, crying and shouting, reading for hours in the bathroom, and taking everything out of every possible drawer. Playing the piano to the despair of Hedda and Stian, (our neighbors downstairs), and through their English language make people wondering hoe so "small" children could speek a foreign language with such excellence.
Henrik at the cottage has the special smart face the make you wandering what he has done without our knowledge.
He is also trying out the bicycle without reaching down to the pedals.
At Sognsvann Helene is feeding the ducks, but keep the distance to the water.
"Mormor" and the two Cymric growing children.
Thank you for the visit and please return as soon as possible to Norway and us.

Every family has ........... Life is Fragile

Every family has one.
Every family has a story.
Every family has its secret, and there is one in every family.
These phrases can be used in many situations and also be used related to my family, and his name was Fredrik.

In October 28, 2005 (3,5 years ago) I published a blogpost (in Norwegian) about Fredrik and his success of getting out of the hell of being drug addicted, starting his 4 year study to become a teacher, and that he in 2005 received a price as "Årets Læringshelt" (Hero of adult learning).
Next Thursday, Fredrik´s funeral will take place.

Fredrik was very open about his problems and challenges. He was often used as a good example of how to make changes in a life situation even when background and age made many things more difficult.
He presented papers in various seminars and congresses, and from one paper at Riga, Latvia, I quote:
First his introduction:

7 years ago I was a drug addict. It started out when I was 20 years old in 1988. I don’t want to bother you with my sad story. But when I look back now, I can see that one of the most important reasons to why things went so wrong for me was that I really didn’t know what to do with my life. I had no clue at all. I was 20 years old, already an adult, and the only thing I enjoyed was sleeping in the daytime and doing things that was not legal in the night time. I mingled with the wrong kind of persons, and soon I was in deep trouble. In 2001, I woke up one day in a strange bed and found myself committed to a hospital in Fredrikstad by force. I was almost dead. They locked the door, and I felt like they had thrown away the key. But it saved my life. I stayed in the hospital for several years and we started planning my way back 2to a normal life. The only problem was that I wasn’t sure what a normal life was. I knew only one thing for sure. Some years ago, when I was lying in bed very sick from not getting my drugs, I had 2 wishes. The first wish was to become something. To have a plan for my life, a schedule every day, to do something I enjoyed every day. Not having to get money all the time, just to survive. The second thing was; to have a girlfriend, a family.

So, I was recovering well, and I met with the Norwegian employment office (NEO). It was a big meeting. It was 5 or 6 of them and me. They actually told me that if I continued doing well in recovery, I could do what ever I wanted to do. I could become whatever I wanted to become. They would support me all the way. All my struggles through the last years paid off, I was so happy. So I went on with my recovery, and after a while I was offered an opportunity to attend a school.
I went down to NEO again to talk to the women in charge, my new "case handler". Guess what she said. She said; “NO! We can’t help you.
We can put you in a course for a couple of weeks, a work training course and then you have to get yourself a job as everyone else. There will be no special treatment for you”.

Fredrik did not give in. He really wanted a new life and at last one public NEO officer said:

I personally would really like to help you achieve your goals, but I have to check it up with my boss. But I will do everything in my power to help you, as long as you do everything in your power to graduate as a teacher. This will be a two way thing. She went to talk to her bosses, and a few weeks later she phoned me. Go to school, she said. We support you for 4 years… It was one of the greatest things that had
happened to me. Not just the money, but there were actually people that believed in me. I think that maybe this was as important as the money.

In this paper: Equal opportunities for all. The value of adult learning in promoting equality. The threshold to learning, Riga 2007, he ended his speech like this:

Most of the people that are gathered here today is working with something that has to do with adult learning, or having an interests in this field. All of you, in your own way, can make sure that the threshold to learning gets a little bit lower. You just have to have faith in people, believe in them, stand behind them and help them. Help them overcome their fears and their problems. Help them to help themselves!

- Always give people a second chance
- Support the ones, that want to become adult learners, all the way through their education with all possible means
- Don’t always transfer bad experience to your next case. People are different.Everybody needs a chance.
- If you want to help someone, make sure their surroundings of their education are prepared. Help them prepare for learning. They may need more than just a seat in a classroom.
- Don’t give up on them if they fail one time. People do fail you know. Many people needs a second chance before they understand the seriousness of the situation.
- But make sure that they follow the rules. Show them that you care and that you have faith in them!

Many people had faith in Fredrik. He got a lot of respect and positive feedback. He changed physically and the way he behaved in family gatherings. He succeeded in his struggle to graduate. He got a job as a teacher.

He was happy - too happy!
He wanted to "celebrate his victory", but his body did not tolerate the drug. He died from an overdose a week ago.
We will remember Fredrik for what he was, what he achieved and what he told us in the end.
Life is fragile.

A civil engineer to be?

During my career in DNV and raising two girls in that period, I always hoped that at least one of them would choose to study naval architecture, mathematics or physics.
One decided to go for Drama and English language and literature before graduating as a Master of Arts in Digital Media and presently working with her PhD.
The other ended up, so far, with a Bachelor of Science in Psychology.

This morning I saw a new dawn in the family academic possibilities; Henrik´s interest in building towers with Lego bricks.Concentration and focus.
With a little help from your friends (and family) maybe you will fulfill my dreams.

Spring

Apple tree blooming and the wind warm and lovely.
Summer is coming closer

Family Gathering

Children, Mothers and Grandparents gathering in Oslo.

Henrik´s first time in Norway and three years since last visit by Trine and Helene. Maja is still more interested in sleeping, Tor-Marius is the photographer and David is working in Wales.

Maja visiting Tullarbo for inspection

Last autumn we started a small renovation of our summer residence. Today we are close to finishing this work (no activity during winter cold), and the result was inspected by Maja and parents today.The princess herself was not too eager to applaud her grandparent´s effort. She is at the moment more concerned with breast-milk harvesting and sleeping.The next three photos show the result of our interior work at Tullarbo.
The TV corner and living"room":
And the dining room now connected to the kitchen in an open space: The cottage as seen here is only 22 sqm, and could be put in our bedroom at home. Of corse are all paintings made by myself.

R for Relaxing at Rawa Island, South China Sea

Wednesday, the possibility is 92.000.000 nok (>10 mill euros) in the Viking Lotto game this evening, so if I become the single winner I promise you to go to Rawa Island in Malaysia once more to Relax and plan for how to spend my Ridiculous huge fortune.

I could have used R for Repair with Reference to yesterday Recovery post, or R for Rejected to upload photos due to lack of Picasa Storage, but Rawa is her to stay.

I have to purchase more space for uploading photos, so this reference to a previous post is all today

More references to R are found HERE

Apartment renovation nearly finished

Sometimes my world is very narrow. Hopefully next week will be more interesting when family from Wales are coming on a visit. However here is my tuesday contribution.
As described in my blog on May 5th we have had an accident connected to spreading of building dust all over our apartment. A cleansing process has now been going on in our rooms for three weeks. The final activity (presently going on) is to restore our paintings by a professional conservator.
Visit other My world Tuesday and get inspired.

May 17. photos

Breakfast at home with Norwegian Salmon, Chrimps, Eggs, Herring, Chees, Strawberry etc. and of course Beer, Champagne and coffee/ tea. Maja needs to be breast-fed, but that is only for some months or years. After that she will enjoy coming to us for other reasons.
Grandma and Maja at the balcony
And Maja taking a nap after feeding and photo session.
The master himself relaxing at Fridtof (Pub close to the City Hall). Problems with the "bunad" this year due to expansion of abdomen, but there are many tailors and fitnes centra with competence to get rid of the problem till next May 17.

Hurra for Syttende Mai and Congrats to Alexander

The Constitution of Norway was signed and dated May 17th 1814. It was considered one of the most radically democratic constitutions in the world at the time. May 17 is now the National Day of Norway. Some of us are wearing traditional outfits or our local national costume, called bunad on a day like this.To all Norwegian home and abroad: Congratulation with the day.

and: to Alexander Rybak, winer of Eurovision Song Contest 2009.

From City strolling to City biking

Our Saturday Urban City life is normally included to strolling Oslo with short breaks at boutiques, cafes, pubs and/or restaurants. The anticipated time when walking from our home to the city hall is 17 minutes.
This time is now shortened dramatically by using the Clear Channel City Bikes. At almost 100 stands all over the city we have free access to and can use for three hours before returning the bikes to any stand. Subscription period is one year to a cost of 10 Euros (80 nok).
On our tour (not Giro) from stand 54 and down town, we pass the Royal Guard marching from Akershus Castle and up towards the Royal Palace for daily watch changing. Tomorrow the 17th of May Children Parade will take place through the same route.
A short break for shopping is possible, but do not leave the bikes unguarded. You are responsible for the bike until correctly returned to and locked at an operational city bike stand.
After biking the city, the beers at Hannibals Hybel, Aker Brygge´s oldest Pub (23 years), are well earned either you sit in the shadow or prefer the Chardonnay in the warm sunshine.
Enjoy your biking, and here is the map of Oslo city bike stands. (The same service is available at Drammen and Trondheim)

Mid-life crises - Norwegian style ?

Sometimes I wonder if everything are as it should be:But then I realize that it happens to others as well ... A friend of mine, same age, told me this:

After having been married in 44 years, I took one day a critical eye on my wife and told her this: "Honey, 44 years ago we had a cheap apartment, a cheap car, we slept on the couch in the living room, and watched a 10-inch black and white TV. But I went to bed everyday with a hot woman of 25 years.
Now I have a home to 4 million, a car to 750,000, a huge double bed, and a 50-inch flat TV,
but I need every night go to bed with a tired women at 65! As far as I can see you have not followed up here! "

My wife is a quite sensible women. She said only:
"Go out and just find yourself a hot chic woman of 25 years, and I will ensure that you get back: A cheap apartment, a cheap car, a sofa bed and a cheap black-and-white TV!"

Mature girls are fantastic.
They make sure you solve your mid-life-crises in seconds!

Gates to Palma de Mallorca

My contribution to the meme "the Doors" this week is from my stay in Palma de Mallorca the last week in April.
First one of the gates to the old town, the castle and the cathedral La Seu . The cathedral is overlooking the Parc de la Mar and the Mediterranean Sea, protected by the old town walls. This gate is one of the beautiful openings in the wall.
The gate seen from the seaside above and towards the sea below.
The second is Porta Vella de Moll, the old gateway to the city from the sea is located between La Llotja (Palma de Majorca guildhall build in 1426, and one of the most beautiful civil buildings on the whole of the island) also called Palma's masterpiece of Gothic civic architecture, and on the other side Consulat de Mar, the former maritime court which houses the Baleares government.

Maja the newest family member

Maja one day old and MRT (not Mass Rapid Transit in Singapore) but the three generations Maja, Rikke and Tullen. No further comments needed in this post.

Our third grandchild born

Rikke, our youngest daughter, gave birth to a baby girl yesterday afternoon. According to the father, Tor-Marius, everything is fine with mother and child. The little new most beautiful wonder of the world was blue eyed, dark haired, 3300 gr and 52 cm when she arrived at 4.22 pm. I will bring you photos as soon as obtained.
Update 1:Update 2:
Her name is Maja.

Update 3: With dad.
All our gratulations go to the parents and the new citizen of Norway.

Dr. Livingstone, I presume?

Today´s flag (visiting country no 131) is Malawi. I must admit that I did not know anything about Malawi before getting this visitor. However, googling around I found that the Welsh-born reporter for the New York Herald, Henry Morton Stanley, went to Africa in search of missionary and explorer David Livingstone.

I often used the term "find Livingstone" during my period as a manager. Too often employees wanted detailed procedures to reach targets, asking me what to do. Instead of commanding them to do this and that, continuously asking me for directions, I gave them the freedom to make the path when walking as long as they did know that "Livingstone" was the goal.

Dr Livingstone was the first European to see Victoria Falls (Mosi-oa-Tunya), to which he gave the English name in honour of his monarch,Queen Victoria. Malawi is a landlocked country (like Mongolia in northeast Asia) in southeastern Africa, bordered by Zambia to the northwest, Tanzania to the northeast and Mozambique to the south, southwest and southeast, and was formerly known as Nyasaland.
Malawi is among the world's developing economies and densely populated in the Southern and Central Regions of the country. The economy is heavily based in agriculture, with a largely rural population.
The economy of Malawi has in the past been dependent on substantial economic aid from the World Bank, the International Monetary Fund (IMF) and individual nations.
The Malawian flag is made up of three equal horizontal stripes of black, red and green with a red rising sun superimposed in the center of the black stripe. The black stripe represents the African people, the red represents the blood of martyrs for African freedom, green represents Malawi's ever-green nature and the rising sun represents the dawn of freedom and hope for Africa.

Welcome my digital new friend from Malawi.

J as in Jamon (Cured Ham in Spanish)

Petunia is hosting the Norwegian version of Mrs Nesbit´s ABC Wednesday. Petunia calls it "ABC i Ord og Bilder" (ABC in Words and Photos) and the meme is a weekend activity within the specific letter.
This weekend the letter is J as in Jamon (Spanish), Jambon (French) (or Ham in English).
Some of you may have seen this photos as part of my postings from Palma de Mallorca two weeks ago, but a good thing cannot be told too seldom. The Spanish Jamon Serrano is delicious for lunch or part of a Tapas Recipe. In Italy Prosciutto di Parma has the same value, but Pata negra is even better.
Have a nice weekend with your camera and creativity.

Side effects - House Renovation

Presently some specialists are taken action in our home to limit the damaging side effects of an accident performed by our neighbors during their renovation activity of own apartment. Very fine (micro) dust has been spread in all rooms, and walls, carpets, paintings, textiles and books are under treatment by competent resources. We expect the cleansing process to take some additional days in next week too.
Lucky us to be insured for such disaster.

The photo is from our glass cabinet in the dining room, and neither wine nor cognac will be served from these utensils in the coming weekend. We have others.

We were fortunate to have a "tight" door for the cabinet, thus reducing the wider spreading of the red sooting demon. I therefore add the "The Doors" logo to this post.

From Mongolia to Belize and Solvang

Tuesday this week I presented Mongolia and the Mongol Empire. Last night my first visitor from Belize (no.130 country) found my blog. Belize was called British Honduras from 1862 when Great Britain formally declared it a British Crown Colony, subordinate to Jamaica. Before the arrival of Europeans, The Mopan Maya were the original inhabitants of Belize. The Maya civilization spread itself over Belize beginning around 1500 BC and flourished until about AD 900. In the late classic period of Maya civilization (before A.D. 1000), as many as 400,000 people may have lived in the area that is now Belize.
The Classic Maya Collapse is one of the biggest mysteries in archaeology.
Welcome to my world my Belizean friend.

At present my world is more or less connected to our efforts to make the cottage ready for the summer season. Internal activities (painting and renewal of furniture) have to go hand in hand with gardening. The raspberries are made weedless while the Magnolia tree is blooming on naked branches.Paying tribute (not mobbing) to the Rusty Girls, Anne and GundaM my blog-reading better half have found some scrap (steel thread), but I think she prefer carrying her Sapphire (and in the summer season) her Black Opal pendants.

P for Painting in ABC Wednesday

A painter is a painter and painting is painting, or is a painter a painter?
A painter is a handyman painter when painting the floor at our summer cottage yesterday. I would call the color "the master of the house´s nightmare", where everything will become visible on the deep red floor, and washing is not my favorite.
The tool is also a little bigger than what I normally use, but I love paintings in large formats.
A painter is also a painter when making paintings in formats not suitable for every apartment and only for gallery or institution walls. This was 100 x 150cm (acrylic on canvas) but became overpainted later because another way of express the motive turned out more interesting. Maybe I will return to the original idea this summer. The colors used so far was not bad.A painter is a proud painter too, when discovering a good working result "hidden" in my daughter´s apartment from the day it was finished. Now the soon to come mother and father have moved to a new place, and suddenly I saw my work at the wall. Immediately I had to shoot an iPhone photo of it.
The Painting, called "the first day at school" (acrylic on paper, 36 x 40cm), I made some years ago, but have not had it in my gallery before today.
P is for the Painter´s Paintings presented in My Gallery on the ABC Wednesday = P.More P expressions can be found at ABC Wednesday Round 4

My world Tuesday - Mongolia

Getting new visitors to my blog and knowing from where in the world they come from, is one of the reason why I use the Flag Counter. In less than a year persons from 128 countries in one way or another have found my world through my blog and hopefully read my posts with interest.
My newest flag on the list is Mongolia
During the collapse of the Qing Dynasty in 1911, Mongolia declared independence, but had to struggle until 1921 to firmly establish de-facto independence, and until 1945 to gain international recognition.
Mongolia was a strong force and great Empire in the late twelfth century.
The largest contiguous empire in world history, The Mongol Empire, was formed by Gengis Khan and his successor Kublai Khan.
If you follow the links above you will learn more of this interesting country and its people´s heroic history.
Welcome to my world you visitor from your country far east, and if you and all other visitors want more presentations of blogger´s worlds, please go HERE.

Odd Shots on Monday

I present two odd shots from my photo file shot during my Malorca stay two weeks ago.
The first I found rather strange in a mountain town shop on this summer island (Valldemossa), and the "sculpture"? or climbing stand below found in one of Palma de Mallorca´s playground for children, was really odd.
I have always believed that the church spire was directed towards higher forces, but here I have to reevaluate where heaven is.

More Odd shots can be forund HERE

Karl III (the third), Terje and Tullen

One of my favorite painters, the Ålesund born autodidact artist Terje Fagermo, played a part in the TV2 show "Karl III" last week. The portrait of the new rich leading figure Karl the third did not end up in an expected way, but the painter used the artistic freedom like any painter, and made the portrait the way he saw Karl.
It could have been interesting to let Terje make a portrait of Tullen too. Perhaps some other works by Terje Fagermo will give you a more sophisticated view of his normal artistic style:

Palma de Mallorca - hasta luego

During this week I have taken you on a journey to the streets in Palma de Mallorca and what we experienced during our stay in the capital of the Baleares.
You may have been tired of all these photos, but at least have I had a great time going through my memories and recalled this stay which I highly recommend for people not only going to Mallorca for the beaches, sun and wine.

This last painting can be found at the modern Palma de Mallorca Airport approaching the international departure gates. Hasta luego.

Palma de Mallorca - Valldemossa

Staying a city for more than a weekend gives you more possibilities to take out of town trips.We went to the northwestern coastline. There are eight return trip busses going from Plaza Espana to Valldemossa and four that continue to Deia and Soller.
In Valldemossa you should visit the Charterhouse (paintiing above) where Frederich Chopin and George Sand spent the winter of 1838.In the Carthusian monastry - La Cartoixa - the beautiful roof over the altar can give you a moment of peace and reflection, and the pharmacy and library are intriguing rooms:
Outside every cell there is a garden terrace and Chopin´s cell is set up with copies of his music sheets and furniture as it almost was when he stayed and worked here. The air in the Tramuntana Mountains is different from Palma.
If you are lucky, you can join a concert (20 min) where Chopin´s Preludes are played, but do not miss the buss departure by entering too many tourist shops. Rather look at the painted tiles beside the front door of the houses where Mallorca´s patron saint, St Catalina Tomas is meant to give protection.
The bus stop gives you another possibility to relax and enjoy the sunbeams.before you continue the journey (on very scary roads) via Deia to Soller for a tram trip to Port de Soller
and return to Palma with the 10 euros hard seat train

Palma de Mallorca - Art and Paintings

As always when visiting cities around the world I search around for interesting paintings and other works by artists, famous and unknown. Painters are usually located in plazas and pedestrian streets where some are working on spot, and others are only selling own and others works. (Click on photos to se them in larger size)
This artist was at her corner every morning around 9 am and we had a short discussion about her "kind" / "photolike" on canvas her neighbor artist more expressionistic acrylic on paper.
The third painter presented his version of the tram in traffic between Port de Soller and Soller train station
At our lunch restaurant in Soller the walls was covered with paintings for sale. This bull became my choice for blog presentation.
Juan Miro and Majorca are intertwined. Miro's mother was from the island. His mother, Dolors Ferra i Oromi was the daughter of a cabinet-maker in Palma, Majorca. Joan Miro lived and worked here in Majorca for 40 years.
Palma´s newest museum and gallery has works vy Picasso and Miro, but contemporary art by many artists are well worth a visit.
The painting below by Max Neuman is presently for sale at 35.000 euros.
This painting decorating the reception at our Hotel is a great expression og the narrow street in old Palma, and the model is easy to find in my previous posts.
At last I give you a sculpture by George Sugarman placed below the old city wall.
Have a nice art journey to Palma de Mallorca.